Do you let your horse have a voice? Do you listen to what they have to say, or do you unintentionally talk over them? No quality conversation is one-sided. When we speak with our human friends, there is dialogue. Why, then, do our conversations with horses sometimes turn into a monologue? Photo Credit: Mutt Love Photography Horses might be non-verbal in most of their communications, but that doesn’t mean they aren’t saying as much or more than we are. Horses are highly intuit

Do you set goals? Most of us do. Sometimes they’re very specific and ambitious, such as achieving a certain result at a specific show. Other times they’re more ambiguous and open-ended, such as “I’d eventually like to show at least Third Level.”  Photo Credit: Mutt Love Photography We can easily get caught up in our excitement and hyper-focused on goal achievement. Maybe we just got a new horse, or we had a super show season, or our training at home is going extremely well. S

Riding is hard in every way. Obviously, physically it’s a challenging activity. All four quadrants of your body must be doing different things simultaneously, while sitting on a horse who has a mind of its own and is moving different parts of its body in different ways – sometimes unpredictably. Anyone who says, “You just sit there, the horse does all the work!” is showing their hand – we instantly know they’ve never actually ridden a horse. I deal with those comments by sayi

What is the voice in your head telling you? The answer to this question will provide you with a lot of insight. We are almost always our own toughest critics. So often we worry about what others think or say about us, when we should really be focusing on our own thoughts and our feelings toward ourselves. Photo Credit: Mutt Love Photography Those of us who ride in a specific discipline, such as dressage, engage in riding as a sport. We set high goals and standards for ourselv

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Ever feel like you’re getting nowhere? Or that you’ve been riding for years, and you feel like you’re getting worse? I’ll tell you a...

Have you turned your horse into a princess? I know I have. “Princess” has been one of Lacey’s primary nicknames since I bought her, so it...

What happens if tomorrow never comes? So many of us that pursue horse sports are perfectionists, especially those involved in dressage....

Have we lost our path? There is a lot of emphasis in the horse world right now on finding kinder, more humane ways of training and...

Are you unconsciously letting your beliefs limit your learning? I remember being a teenager and being completely convinced that what I...

On May 23rd, 2025, Krypton's Justice (aka Justice) turned thirty years old. I started riding him as a five-year-old, 25 years ago. I was...

Who learns more, the master or the student? Note that the question is not past tense – who has learned more – it is present tense. A good...

Life is kind of like a Choose Your Own Adventure novel. Do you remember reading those as a kid? I loved them. I would read through,...

Perspective is a funny thing. We all see the world through our own eyes, shaped by our personal experiences and emotions. Often, we are...

Goal achievement. How many times do we get hyper-fixated on where we want to be, what we want to do, things we want to achieve? How often...

How many times have you set a goal in your riding that you have not achieved? Pretty much everyone who rides horses will answer this...

How often do we get stuck in a negative mindset, not just around our riding, but in life in general? Thoughts are magnetic, and attract...

Fear. It is funny how this single thing can trigger so many emotions in us. Aside from the obvious associated feelings of anxiety, panic...